Father’s Day

 

My Dad at my wedding: this smile complete captures his personality. My Dad at my wedding: this smile complete captures his personality.

I have always been a Daddy’s girl.  There are stories of when I was a baby when I would watch TV curled up in my dad’s arms completely content.  Apparently he was the one who could get me sleep.  My dad is a pretty awesome guy.  He is patient, kind, and oh-so-generous.  He is always willing to help his family and friends no matter what the problem.  I remember him calling me when our home was flooded telling me he was standing in our living room.  He was the first one in the house after the terrible flood.  You could hear the compassion in his voice as he viewed the destruction.

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Birthdays PM

Mom's Birthday 2009 Wildfire: Oakbrook, IL Mom’s Birthday 2009 Wildfire: Oakbrook, IL

Birthdays PM (post mom) pretty much suck.  I had my 37th birthday a mere 3 weeks after my mom died.  I wasn’t exactly in a celebratory mood.  I remember my dad asking me if I wanted to go out to dinner.  I told him that I just wanted to make dinner like a regular Thursday and forget the day had some sort of significance.  Honestly, with exception of my wedding, honeymoon, and very few other joyous events, I would have liked to have forgotten that my 36th year even existed.  I wanted a redo.

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